In 2010, a female student in my Accounting class came to me and told me something very disturbing. She said a male teacher was constantly hugging her, and it made her feel extremely uncomfortable. She said he had been doing this for a while, and that she hadn't said anything because she was hoping it would stop. She said she never reciprocated, she just sort of tolerated it because she didn't know what to do. Apparently it had gotten out of hand though, and she couldn't stand it anymore and was dreading going to his class. So, she asked me to do something.
I went to Assistant Principal Carolyn Szostek's office and told her the story, and she promised she would do something about it. She empathized with the girl right away, because she said there used to be a male teacher there that would do that to her when she was a young teacher, and it was disgusting. She said it got to a point that she finally told him to never touch her again. The following day, Robyn Armon, the head of the Guidance Department, stopped me in the hallway and told me it had all been taken care of, that the male teacher had been warned to stop hugging this girl.
That same day, the male teacher who was the "hugger" told me about the situation, not knowing I was the one who had reported it. He was very upset. His exact words to me were, "Why is it a problem every time I get close to a girl? Other teachers do it and no one stops them." Then he told me that he was targeted years ago, during the "witch hunt" the administration conducted after Tom Nuzzi was fired for stealing money and "dating" female students. He said he had been reported for inappropriate behavior on multiple occasions over the years, including incidents of staring at girls' breasts.
So I guess my question is, why is he STILL working there? No teacher should be getting "close to" any student. Teachers are not there to "get close" to them. Teachers should be teaching students what they have to teach, grading students' papers, AND NOT TOUCHING THEM. I do not understand the mental mystery among SFP teachers regarding NOT TOUCHING THE KIDS.
The reason I am writing this blog today is because the girl who came to me in 2010 texted me recently that she is considering suing the school for sexual harassment. I told her that was a very serious decision to make, and she should think it over carefully. She would need to be prepared to be repeatedly called liar, just like Felicia Mooradian. She would also need to be prepared, in all probability, to have her allegations "denied" by people who know it happened, just like in Felicia's case.
So I guess we shall see as to whether or not she files a lawsuit in the near future. It's her decision to make, not anyone else's. God will tell her what she should do.
In any event, I must go now. Time to make the donuts! ;)
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Please Help Us Find Br. Michael Moran, Former Principal of St. Francis Prep, and a Pedophile
Three people have contacted us so far about Br. Michael Moran, the principal who was arrested for child molestation in 1980 and taken out of St. Francis Prep in handcuffs.
The first person who contacted us is an alumna, and was a neighbor and friend of the boy who pressed charges. She recounted for us what he said Br. Michael did with him in his office.
The second was someone who had tracked Br. Michael for 20 years since he left St. Francis Prep. This person shared information about what supposedly had happened when Br. Michael left Hofstra in 1983 and his alleged crimes while running a soup kitchen on Long Island after that. He lost track of Br. Michael about 12 years ago and asked if we could try and find him. It wasn't asking really, it was a plea for help. This person is extremely concerned that Br. Michael is still molesting little boys somewhere.
The third person graduated from St. Francis Prep in 1980 and contacted us this past week. She sent us this:
I saw in one of your blogs, a request for information about the former principal of St. Francis Prep, Brother Michael Moran. What type of information are you looking for and what do you plan to do with it?
We answered with this:
And then, she sent this last night:
The first person who contacted us is an alumna, and was a neighbor and friend of the boy who pressed charges. She recounted for us what he said Br. Michael did with him in his office.
The second was someone who had tracked Br. Michael for 20 years since he left St. Francis Prep. This person shared information about what supposedly had happened when Br. Michael left Hofstra in 1983 and his alleged crimes while running a soup kitchen on Long Island after that. He lost track of Br. Michael about 12 years ago and asked if we could try and find him. It wasn't asking really, it was a plea for help. This person is extremely concerned that Br. Michael is still molesting little boys somewhere.
The third person graduated from St. Francis Prep in 1980 and contacted us this past week. She sent us this:
I saw in one of your blogs, a request for information about the former principal of St. Francis Prep, Brother Michael Moran. What type of information are you looking for and what do you plan to do with it?
We answered with this:
We received a plea from a graduate asking us to please help
find him and do what we could to make sure he is not hurting children. This
person tracked him for 20 years, then lost track of him when he left the food
bank he was operating on Long Island. We received very detailed information
from this person from which one could easily conclude that he did not stop his
questionable activities when he left SFP. We received another letter from a
close friend of someone he hurt. If you have any information about him, it
would be appreciated.
And then, she sent this last night:
In the spring of 1980, a relative of mine worked in the 107
Precinct, the same precinct where the school is located. My relative saw the
police report detailing the sexual abuse that took place between the principal,
Bro. Michael Moran and a student. I was told by my relative, Bro. Michael Moran
had sodomized a male freshmen student in his office on several occasions. There
were several students, like myself who had relatives in the police department
and we all heard the same thing from our cop relatives. The police investigated
the charges and believed them to be true. It was a fact not a rumor.
Bro. Michael Moran was immediately removed from his position
at the school. No explanation was ever given to the students. No criminal
charges were ever filed against Bro. Mike because the student's parents agreed
not to press charges when the Franciscan Brothers said they would relocate the
principal to a place where he would not have contact with children again.
At the time, it seemed like a win-win. Lock the pedophile up in a monastery somewhere and save victim from having to testify. Little did we know back then, the Catholic Church didn't always follow through on their part of the bargain and pedophile priests would often end up in locations where they could continue their abusive behavior. I have often wonder if the same was true with Bro. Michael Moran.
A Law and Order show made think about Bro. Mike again. I tried googling his name and came across your blog. I have no idea of his current location. Your response leads me to believe he was never "put away". It makes me sick to think the Catholic Church has once again failed to protect innocent children.
No, Br. Michael Moran wasn't "locked away" in a
monastery. He went from Prep directly to Hofstra University to serve as
Chaplain. In 1983, he started a food bank on Long Island now named Interfaith
Nutrition Network. The person who wrote us asking for help also alleges that in
1983, he was reported at Hofstra for having sex with an 18 year old freshman
boy and that is what actually prompted his departure from the school. This
person also alleges that Michael Moran used the soup
kitchen as a way to have access to the homeless boys whose families came there
for help.This is the same MO of Father Bruce Ritter at Covenant House.
Here is a New York Times article discussing Br. Michael and
the history of the food pantry:
http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9901E2DD1531F937A35751C1A9639C8B63
Michael Moran is out there because St. Francis Prep did not
help put him away. I have an 8 year old son, and this disgusts me to no end. It
makes me physically sick. Do you care about children at all SFP? It is a
legitimate question, because many of you, including some people in the
administration, like Ted Jahn (joined SFP administration in 1978), were there in 1980 when Br. Michael was quietly
"removed." How do you sleep at night? Do you wake up and look in the
mirror and think you are spectacular people doing God's work?
If anyone reading this has any information about Michael
Moran's whereabouts, we would appreciate it. The greatest concern with pedophiles is that they DO NOT STOP. They keep doing it until they are caught and put in prison.
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
More From Angel Amore, and I Thank Him For It
I want to say three things to you, Angel Amore:
1. I want to thank you so much for sending me information that allows me to help people.
2. I still have absolutely no idea who you are.
3. Even if I did know who you are, I would protect your anonymity. I keep my promises.
Over 1,000 people read the blog in the last two days. Some of these readers asked me to publish more of what Angel had to say. So, I oblige with the following excerpts from our many Facebook conversations:
And some more interesting tidbits:
And the grand finale for tonight:
OK, that's enough for now. I'll be back though. There's so much more still to say (and show).
1. I want to thank you so much for sending me information that allows me to help people.
2. I still have absolutely no idea who you are.
3. Even if I did know who you are, I would protect your anonymity. I keep my promises.
Over 1,000 people read the blog in the last two days. Some of these readers asked me to publish more of what Angel had to say. So, I oblige with the following excerpts from our many Facebook conversations:
And some more interesting tidbits:
And the grand finale for tonight:
OK, that's enough for now. I'll be back though. There's so much more still to say (and show).
Sunday, January 19, 2014
How EC met Felicia - An Angel Sent Her
People are asking me constantly how I met Felicia. I guess I never addressed it adequately in previous blogs. Therefore, I thought I would show you:
These are from April 9 - 12 2011, when someone I didn't know and who was using an anonymous shadowy moniker (LOL) contacted me on Facebook:
When I contacted Felicia, we traded a few messages. However, her aunt was terminally ill, and of course that took precedence over anything regarding SFP. Felicia said she would contact me soon, but she didn't until a year and a half later in January, 2013, after I started blogging.
In any event, I hope this clears up any confusion and eases curiosity.
Ta ta!
P.S. To the moron who insinuated on our website in the not too distant past that Angel Amore is a creation of my own mind: Don't you wish?
These are from April 9 - 12 2011, when someone I didn't know and who was using an anonymous shadowy moniker (LOL) contacted me on Facebook:
When I contacted Felicia, we traded a few messages. However, her aunt was terminally ill, and of course that took precedence over anything regarding SFP. Felicia said she would contact me soon, but she didn't until a year and a half later in January, 2013, after I started blogging.
In any event, I hope this clears up any confusion and eases curiosity.
Ta ta!
P.S. To the moron who insinuated on our website in the not too distant past that Angel Amore is a creation of my own mind: Don't you wish?
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Meet Joseph DiSomma, Convicted Felon and Controller of St. Francis Prep
My first year at St. Francis Prep, I worked for Br. Mark. He was the head of the Computer Science and Business Department. I liked him very much. Besides being a good man, on his free periods he would light scented candles in our office and crochet. What's not to like?
A few months into that school year, Br. Mark told me that the man running the school's finances,
Joseph Disomma, is a convicted jewel thief. He told me his nickname is Joey Diamonds, and that he has mafia ties. He told me many things, but that was one of them. That was a biggie. He also told me that so long as he was there, he would protect me from all the nonsense that the administration dished out. Those were his exact words, "I will protect you." Br. Mark quit at the end of that school year - 2008 - and he had to get permission from Br. Bill Boslet, the Superior General of the Franciscans, to do it. Br. Mark just could not take the bullshit anymore. He gave me three main reasons he was leaving - Br. Leonard, Patrick McLaughlin, and Joseph Disomma. On his last day, he apologized to me. He said "I'm sorry I won't be able to protect you anymore." But I am a big girl, I knew I would handle it.
About a year later, my good friend at the time, Andrea, was overheard in the faculty lounge talking about Joey Diamonds. She was soon summoned to Patrick McLaughlin's office, and Joseph Disomma was there. She was told to never speak of "Joey Diamonds" again, so she didn't.
Someone who is now a reporter for Newsday, and who previously worked at the Daily News, recently forwarded some information about Joseph "Joey Diamonds" Disomma,.
This is what her investigation turned up:
The SFP principal refused to get on the phone with me when told I was
Joseph Disomma started working at St. Francis Prep as Assistant to the Treasurer. He was promoted to Controller after Br. Ralph died.
A few months after I launched my website, some posts went up about Joey Diamonds. Someone named Michelle DeRosalito reported those Burns to us and told us to take them down because they "linked" his real life cases to his job. Someone also visited my web designer at his job and "asked" him to make sure those Burns about Joey Diamonds came down. This person said they did not care about any of the other posts about the school, just those posts. I was concerned about the safety my young son, so they came down.
I believe that rehabilitation is possible, and I believe in redemption, but I don't think putting someone who was convicted of conspiring to commit robbery (while possessing a firearm) in charge of the finances at the country's largest Catholic High School is the wisest decision.
Do you?
A few months into that school year, Br. Mark told me that the man running the school's finances,
Joseph Disomma, is a convicted jewel thief. He told me his nickname is Joey Diamonds, and that he has mafia ties. He told me many things, but that was one of them. That was a biggie. He also told me that so long as he was there, he would protect me from all the nonsense that the administration dished out. Those were his exact words, "I will protect you." Br. Mark quit at the end of that school year - 2008 - and he had to get permission from Br. Bill Boslet, the Superior General of the Franciscans, to do it. Br. Mark just could not take the bullshit anymore. He gave me three main reasons he was leaving - Br. Leonard, Patrick McLaughlin, and Joseph Disomma. On his last day, he apologized to me. He said "I'm sorry I won't be able to protect you anymore." But I am a big girl, I knew I would handle it.
About a year later, my good friend at the time, Andrea, was overheard in the faculty lounge talking about Joey Diamonds. She was soon summoned to Patrick McLaughlin's office, and Joseph Disomma was there. She was told to never speak of "Joey Diamonds" again, so she didn't.
Someone who is now a reporter for Newsday, and who previously worked at the Daily News, recently forwarded some information about Joseph "Joey Diamonds" Disomma,.
This is what her investigation turned up:
The SFP principal refused to get on the phone with me when told I was
calling about Disomma.
From Federal Parole
spokesman:
Joseph Disomma, DOB 1/28/1966, was sentenced to 57 months in
prison
for conspiracy to commit robbery.
He was convicted on May 11, 1992 in the Southern NY District
under
Judge Cedarbaum.
His sentence started on Oct. 19, 1993.
He was released on Sept. 19, 1997.
He was at the following facilities in chronological order:
Danbury, CT (minimum security)
Loretto, PA (low security - an UPGRADED security level from
min.)
Fort Dix, NJ (low security)
Then to a half-way house under NY Correction supervision
He had 223 days shaved off his sentence for good behavior,
and 79 days
credited for time served during the trial.
Newsday (New York)
May 29, 1991, Wednesday, CITY EDITION
Thieves Convicted
BYLINE: M.P. McQueen
SECTION: NEWS; Pg. 83
LENGTH: 87 words
Four men have been convicted on charges they operated a
violent
jewelry theft and fencing racket, stealing more than $ 1.2
million
over eight years in robberies from New Jersey to Florida.
Paul Tinnirello, 37, of Babylon, L.I.; Lorenzo Gregory, 36,
of Staten
Island, Joseph DiSomma, 25 of Brooklyn and Charles
Lachterman, 41, who
is being held in the Metropolitan Correctional Center
because he has
been convicted of state burglary charges, were convicted by
a federal
district court jury in Manhattan Friday.
U.S. v. FRIEDMAN - Argued November 30, 1992.
174.123.24.242/leagle/xmlcontentlinks.aspx?gfile=998%20F...
U.S. v. FRIEDMAN
U.S. v. FRIEDMAN
998 F.2d 53 (1993)
UNITED STATES of America, Appellee-Cross-Appellant,
v.
Felix FRIEDMAN, Lawrence Tinnirello, Paul Tinnirello,
Lorenzo Gregory,
a/k/a "Fat Larry," Frank Mucchiello, a/k/a
"Frankie Mooch," Joseph
DiSomma, a/k/a "Joe Diamonds," Francis Tinnirello,
Michael Pugliese,
and Charles Lachterman, a/k/a "Charlie Lucky,"
Defendants,
Charles Lachterman, Defendant-Appellant, and
Joseph DiSomma, Defendant-Appellant-Cross-Appellee.
Nos. 617, 446, 467, Dockets 92-1373, 92-1274, 92-1306.
United States Court of Appeals, Second Circuit.
Argued November 30, 1992.
Decided June 10, 1993.
James B. Comey, Asst. U.S. Atty., New York City (Otto G.
Obermaier,
U.S. Atty. for the S.D.N.Y., Andrew C. McCarthy, Asst. U.S.
Atty., New
York City, of counsel), for appellee-cross-appellant.
Linda Imes, Richards Spears Kibbe & Orbe, New York City
(Michele R.M.
Campbell, Debevoise & Plimpton, New York City, of
counsel), for
defendant-appellant Charles Lachterman.
Joann Harris, New York City, for
defendant-appellant-cross-appellee
Joseph DiSomma.
Before: OAKES and WINTER, Circuit Judges, and CONBOY,*
District Judge.
________________________________
WINTER, Circuit Judge:
This appeal by Charles Lachterman and Joseph DiSomma1
involves
questions regarding the applicability of U.S.S.G. § 2X1.1 to
Hobbs Act
convictions, a sentencing court's degree of discretion in
applying an
obstruction of justice enhancement when the jury has
necessarily
concluded that the defendant lied at trial, and the proof
sufficient
to establish that predicate acts are related to a criminal
RICO
enterprise.
[ 998 F.2d 55 ]
We affirm in part, vacate in part, and remand for
resentencing.
DISCUSSION
These appeals arise from convictions following a government
investigation into the criminal activities of the
"Friedman/Tinnirello
Organization." Viewing the evidence in the light most
favorable to the
government, the following facts were established at trial.
Since 1983,
the Friedman/Tinnirello group, operating from a variety of
retail
stores and jewelry booths in Manhattan's 47th Street jewelry
district,
fenced hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stolen
personal
property and jewelry. Members of the group also maintained a
steady
supply of jewelry through a wide variety of robberies,
burglaries, and
fraudulent schemes. The nucleus of the group consisted of
three
brothers, Lawrence, Paul, and Francis Tinnirello, as well as
Felix
Friedman, Joseph DiSomma, and Lorenzo Gregory. This opinion
concerns
only the activities of Joseph DiSomma (Tinnirello's cousin)
and
Charles Lachterman, see Note 1 supra, who were convicted for
their
roles in the organization.
A. Joseph DiSomma
In the fall of 1989, Lawrence Tinnirello, Lawrence Taylor,
and Richard
Skowronski conspired to rob the Telco Jewelry store where
Skowronski
worked. United States v. Skowronski,968 F.2d 242 (2d
Cir.1992). The
government alleges that Joseph DiSomma, Skowronski's closest
friend,
was part of this conspiracy and was instrumental in its
planning. The
store carried between $200,000 and $300,000 in inventory and
was
equipped with a safe and a metal roll-down gate which
covered the
storefront at closing. Between Thanksgiving and Christmas,
the period
of the conspiracy, the store also employed security guards
during the
evening hours of business. The plan called for the robbers
to enter
the Telco store after the exterior window gates had been
closed for
the day and "clean ... the whole ... place out."
Government wire-taps revealed that on November 18,
Tinnirello and
Taylor discussed the proposed robbery. Tinnirello indicated
that he
would "check ... out" the Telco store, pretending
to be an ordinary
customer, and that they would "move" if the store
contained at least
$200,000 in jewelry. Two days later, Tinnirello left a
message on
DiSomma's answering machine saying that he wanted "to
meet Richie
[Skowronski] this week and take a look at that thing."
DiSomma
returned the call, saying that he had spoken with Skowronski
about the
plan. The two agreed that they should meet with Skowronski
after
Thanksgiving. On November 27, Tinnirello informed DiSomma
that he and
Taylor would check out the Telco store the following day,
but would
warn Skowronski of their planned visit. DiSomma added that
Skowronski
should not greet them, thereby revealing that he knew them,
but should
just "be cool" when they arrived at the store.
On Thanksgiving morning, Tinnirello recruited Charles
Lachterman, a
professional thief, for the robbery, saying:
I got an inside guy that works somewhere. The same thing
that me and
you are into.... Its just him and two girls, and he wants to
take the
whole ... place.... I already, right, have two guys.... Now
my friend
works in there. You understand? So it's a setup. Ya put the
... gate
down, ya take the showcases, the ... vault, and leave.
On December 13, attempting to prevent the robbery, FBI
agents visited
Skowronski, accused him of planning to rob the Telco store,
and
implied that one of his associates had informed on him.
Skowronski
asserted his innocence, denied knowledge of any wrongdoing,
and the
agents left. Skowronski drove to a phone booth, made three
phone
calls, and returned home. Shortly thereafter, DiSomma
arrived at
Skowronski's residence. The two drove to a pay phone booth
and called
Tinnirello. DiSomma told Tinnirello that "[w]e got
trouble" and urged
him to "go out to a pay phone and call me back."
Tinnirello protested
that he had no car available and asked what was wrong.
DiSomma
answered that there was trouble for them and Skowronski, but
told
Tinnirello to keep quiet. When Tinnirello insisted his phone
was not
tapped and pressed DiSomma for details, DiSomma refused to
disclose
more, saying only that the situation was serious
[ 998 F.2d 56 ]
and that Tinnirello must get to a pay phone.
Later that day, DiSomma and Tinnirello spoke of the FBI's
visit to
Skowronski and the possibility that Skowronski would
cooperate with
the government. DiSomma argued that Skowronski would not cooperate
because he is a "stand-up kid." DiSomma later
advised Tinnirello that
he had taken care of Skowronski's nervousness. Two days
later, DiSomma
told Tinnirello in a coded conversation that Skowronski's
co-worker at
the Telco Jewelry store had been contacted by the FBI but
that
"everything is good." Tinnirello conveyed that
DiSomma should dispose
of his firearm, and DiSomma replied that both he and
Skowronski
already had.
DiSomma was later arrested and charged with RICO conspiracy
and
substantive offenses, a Hobbs Act violation, and mail fraud.
A jury
convicted him only on the Hobbs Act charge. He attacks this
conviction
as unsupported by the evidence, violative of his due process
rights,
and improper because the lower court should have dismissed
the charge
for lack of venue. He also challenges the sentencing court's
three-point addition for possession of a firearm in
connection with
the robbery conspiracy. We affirm.
The government cross-appeals DiSomma's sentence, arguing
that the
district court improperly applied U.S.S.G. § 2X1.1 and
improperly
considered the obstruction of justice enhancement as
discretionary. We
agree and remand for resentencing.
DiSomma argues that the evidence does not support his
conviction under
the Hobbs Act. First, he claims that there is insufficient
evidence of
any conspiracy at all. The wiretaps, in his view, record
only
Tinnirello's rambling, incoherent monologues and not a
conspiracy
joined by others. He next argues that, even if Tinnirello
and others
were planning a robbery, there is insufficient evidence that
he was
involved. DiSomma characterizes his phone calls to
Tinnirello as part
of his effort to help his cousin through a difficult time.
As for the
references to "the thing" involving Telco Jewelry,
DiSomma claims that
it is just as likely that he was simply directing Tinnirello
and
Taylor to Telco in order to facilitate a legitimate jewelry
purchase.
He claims Taylor was looking for a diamond engagement ring
and that he
referred him to Skowronski for the purchase. He also argues
that his
incriminating phone calls to Tinnirello following the FBI
visit may be
equally well understood as reflecting his concern over
unrelated
schemes.
DiSomma mistakes our task on appeal. DiSomma's testimony was
submitted
to the jury who weighed it and found it wanting. It is not
for us to
weigh, as DiSomma would have us, "competing inferences
and
explanations" about which explanation is more likely.
United States v.
Stanley,928 F.2d 575, 577 (2d Cir.), cert. denied, ___ U.S.
___, 112
S.Ct. 141, 116 L.Ed.2d 108 (1991). We cannot reverse a
conviction
merely because the defendant's exculpatory account is
plausible.
Rather, we must affirm so long as, drawing all inferences in
the
government's favor, a reasonable jury might fairly have
found DiSomma
guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. See United States v.
Buck,804 F.2d
239, 242 (2d Cir.1986). The evidence here was sufficient.
First, we have already rejected Skowronski's challenge as to
the
sufficiency of the evidence as to the Telco conspiracy.
Skowronski,
968 F.2d at 247-48. We therefore obviously reject DiSomma's
first
contention that the evidence will not support the finding of
conspiracy; at the very least, Skowronski and Tinnirello
could be
found to have actively conspired to rob the store.
Second, DiSomma's challenge to the evidence of his
involvement is
similarly unsuccessful. After establishing the existence of
the Telco
scheme, the government presented evidence that DiSomma: set
up a
meeting with Skowronski and Tinnirello to talk about the
plan, warned
Tinnirello not to visit the store without first warning
Skowronski,
and made incriminating phone calls to Tinnirello upon
learning of the
FBI's visit to Skowronski. This evidence was more than
sufficient to
allow the jury to conclude that DiSomma was one of the
"two [other]
guys" with whom Tinnirello and Skowronski were
conspiring to rob the
store.
Joseph Disomma started working at St. Francis Prep as Assistant to the Treasurer. He was promoted to Controller after Br. Ralph died.
A few months after I launched my website, some posts went up about Joey Diamonds. Someone named Michelle DeRosalito reported those Burns to us and told us to take them down because they "linked" his real life cases to his job. Someone also visited my web designer at his job and "asked" him to make sure those Burns about Joey Diamonds came down. This person said they did not care about any of the other posts about the school, just those posts. I was concerned about the safety my young son, so they came down.
I believe that rehabilitation is possible, and I believe in redemption, but I don't think putting someone who was convicted of conspiring to commit robbery (while possessing a firearm) in charge of the finances at the country's largest Catholic High School is the wisest decision.
Do you?
Friday, October 18, 2013
A Former Member of the Clergy Who Knows Brother Ben Sent These Letters...And More From Angel Amore
We published excerpts from these emails in October in another venue, and I also wrote a version of the following blog at that time that did not include the Angel Amore tidbits. I didn't publish it, but today I thought what the heck and I added the Angel Amore stuff. The letters were sent several months ago by a former member of the clergy who lived in close quarters with Br. Ben. We deleted a few words to protect his identity, at his request.
I know what you're thinking. Yes, I agree, it's all so nuts. But I said it before and I will say it again: Without Angel, I never would have been able to connect so many dots. Many people are grateful that I did.
I just
wanted to say how much I admire Felicia!!
She's the only one in almost 30 years to put an end to Ben's nonsense!!
But.....if
you think HE'S at all affected, you're mistaken. He's still there (in the Friary) telling
anyone who'll listen how WONDERFUL he is.
He's a smarmy, horrid, EVIL little man.
Felicia described him to a "T"....!!
Isn't it
amazing that he went from "he wants to give her pleasure" to
"she's a crazy girl with a vendetta against men" ? (!!!)
He's a grown
man!! HE should know right from
wrong. The reason he got away with his
nonsense all these years is that he gave out good grades
.....you
didn't have to do much.... just "worship" him!!!
I left the
Prep in the early _0's because I couldn't take him anymore.....best thing I
ever did !!
Among his
own confreres he's known as "Benjafu*k" !!!
Anyway, good
luck... I feel bad. SFP
was a nice place. Once HE moved in we had to start locking
doors.
And his
CONSTANT self adulation was too much.
He was also very willing to tear people down just to make himself look
taller.
Then this
person sent this directly to Felicia:
Hey
Felicia....
I just
wanted to congratulate you and thank you
for being so brave!!! It's about time
someone blew the whistle on that little weasel!! He was a terrible teacher who did
nothing. He got away with it for so long
because he gave out the grades....so the students just learned to put up with
it.
I believe
every word you said, because I actually LIVED with him. He is a terrible person. It's just his style to badmouth someone who's
a threat to him or BULLY someone into submission. Good for you for standing up to him. Unfortunately, with his personality, he STILL
thinks he's God's gift to the
world. By the way, he's about the ONLY
ONE who thinks that way.
I wish you
the best of luck. NO ONE should have to put up with that. I put the blame on HIM..... an administrator or
someone in authority SHOULDN'T HAVE to tell a 62 year old BROTHER what's proper
and improper.
He tells
everyone that he's just fine..... they just found him to be "NAIVE"
.... I agree .... he was naive to think he could get away with it forever.
"Creepy" is a great description of him. I'm so sorry you had to go through it. You were NOT the only one. Like I said , people didn't come forward
because they were getting the grades
.....it was too bad it lasted that long.
Just know
that YOU did nothing wrong!! He thinks
he can do anything he wants. It's about
time someone called him on it.
Then he sent
this to her:
Yes....
he's still living there .....and
he's STILL telling people how wonderful
he is.
I am
________________... Ben was PART of the reason I left. I used to be proud to be a ___________....
being associated with him was
awful!!! I agree, he should have been
put out long ago. He was "nice guy" because he gave out
grades for very little work....all you had to do was "worship" him. I thought that he would have been put out
long ago.... but I thought it would be because of the fact that he was a
terrible teacher.... he wasn't above
giving out the questions / answers to
the final exams. I knew he had a weird
attraction
to the girls.....but to be honest I just thought it was "over
compensation".
I just know
that I couldn't go on living there.....it was HELL on earth!!
And what was
with all those SONGS???? It just
seemed so dumb to me.
And then
this:
Unfortunately,
Ben is only interested in ONE THING:
BEN!!! He is , and always has
been a self absorbed, selfish little man.
Years ago he was ENCOURAGED to live somewhere else, but he refused.
You have to
understand - BEN IS NEVER WRONG!!! As
for his being naive..... that's just nonsense!!
I don't doubt your account as to what transpired when you reported him,
but I still blame HIM!!! But I agree
that something should have happened IMMEDIATELY after you reported it. "That's just the way he is and wasn't it
funny" just doesn't cut if for me.
He knew
early on that he was way out of his league at SFP....at the time it was an
ACADEMIC institution....we took education seriously. He tried to go back to Bishop Ford, his
former school....but they WOULDN'T take him back (does that tell you
something?)
I have to
tell you I feel very bad for all that is happening, but I do understand
it....SFP is a SCHOOL....not a PLAYGROUND for teachers / brothers who NEVER
grew up!!!
EVERYTHING
you said about Ben rings true....I have no doubt that all the rest is true also, and that's tragic.
As far as I'm concerned, THAT MAN has contributed in great part to the
downfall of a once great institution.
And finally
this:
You've been
through enough. And , as I've said before,
with all of this going on, BEN is on his merry way, without a care in the
world. The SHAME won't be cast on
HIM. I find this disgusting. I don't know how many people he's led AWAY
from the Church!!
You've seen
his "MO" first hand....he'll get other students to do his dirty work,
spreading whatever lies he can to protect himself. And his
"humble friar" routine is sickening.
I just hope
that eventually you can get past this.
HE'S in a lot worse shape than you are!!
He will NEVER admit that he's anything less than perfect. The fact that at one time he wanted to devote
his life to give you pleasure and NOW he wants to see you destroyed should tell
you something about his character.
I just want
you to know that if there is EVER a trial (and I hope there IS!), I plan to be there. And I think you can guess on which side I'll
be sitting.
I know what you're thinking. Yes, I agree, it's all so nuts. But I said it before and I will say it again: Without Angel, I never would have been able to connect so many dots. Many people are grateful that I did.
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
A Letter From Felicia Mooradian
Felicia asked to use this blog to thank her supporters and we are very happy to accommodate:
I want to
begin by thanking, with all my heart, the alumni, current students, and the
current/former teachers who have stood by me since I went public. I have
received countless messages of support from people all over the world. Due to
the circumstances, I've had to shut my Facebook down for a while, but your kind
words have been passed along to me by friends. I read your messages over and
over when the going gets tough and I find the strength to carry on this battle-
if not for myself, for other victims who have been afraid to speak up.
It took me a
while to come to the decision to reveal my identity. I was afraid of a backlash
like the one I endured when I was a freshman. What finally galvanized me into
going public was a message from a current teacher. This teacher witnessed
certain administrators bragging about having Jane Doe “over a barrel.” To have someone over a barrel is to have that
person at your mercy- it is a degrading, disrespectful expression, and is
particularly arrogant when being used to describe a young woman who was sexually
harassed as a child at your school. These administrators were capitalizing on
what they perceived was my weakness- my hesitancy to use my name- by
threatening to publicize me. I can only speculate that their intent in
threatening to disclose my identity was intimidation, as there was no legal
benefit to doing so. In retrospect, I appreciate their actions, because going
public has been rewarding and cathartic. I feel as though I have been liberated
of a dark burden; I am not ashamed anymore.
What has
been in the media regarding my case is only a fraction of my entire story, as
there is a limit on what can be run by newspapers and television. I hope to
elucidate some details for you in this letter. For what it’s worth, everything
I have stated is 100% true. I will swear on a stack of bibles and everyone I
love that every piece of information I have shared regarding my case is
factual; I will go to my grave knowing I have spoken the God’s honest truth.
When I was a
freshman at St. Francis Prep, I was sexually harassed by Brother Ben, as were
several of my peers. It never should've happened. The final straw came when I
was alone with Ben in his classroom. He took my hands in his, looked into my
eyes and said, “You know, Felicia, my goal in life is to give you pleasure.”
When I reported Ben, I also reported another teacher who was engaging in highly
disturbing activities with my classmate. It was my classmate’s victimization
that prompted me to report it all at once. I knew something had to be done. I
was told by the administrator I reported Ben to that my word wasn't sufficient,
and so I returned to his office with many other girls who had been harassed.
Imagine my terror when I found out that in spite of numerous first-hand
accounts of Ben’s inappropriate behavior, not only was nothing being done, but
my anonymity had been tossed aside. Ben was told I had reported him and he made
a show of it.
At the time
I reported him, I was informed that Ben didn't deny what he did. He explained
that his flirtation with girls was his way of "connecting" with them.
If it hadn’t been for my parents pleading with a certain administrator to
discipline Ben, nothing would've changed. Prior to their meeting in person,
this administrator hung up on my distraught father, and my mother, who was in
the first trimester of a high-risk pregnancy, had to call back and beg this
administrator to think of his own child being harassed. My parents came to the
school, where they had a meeting with several administrators. One of these administrators
admitted to my parents that Ben had been reprimanded before for asking girls to
do splits in their skirts for extra credit. It has been brought to my attention
that there is a RateMyTeacher post, still on the website, regarding those
incidents dating back to 2004. When Ben was finally evaluated by a
professional, he was rightfully found unfit to work with children. This was
reported to my parents.
Following
his evaluation, Ben was removed from the classroom. He was, however, given the
choice to change residences or remain living at St. Francis Prep. He chose the
latter. Soon after he was removed from teaching, Ben made a trip to his former
classroom, where he told several of my peers that I was a crazy lunatic with a
vendetta against men. Some students in the school, who did not know any better
at the time, bullied me because Ben had been terminated. It escalated to the
point of death threats, and I spent a lot of time in the school chapel, praying
for a respite. In time, the bullying abated, but until the day I graduated, I
never shook the notoriety that followed me throughout my four years at St.
Francis Prep.
I hope that
by breaking down these events, I have clarified some things for those of you
with questions. I have been asked a lot about a possible protest during Open
House. I do not know who is organizing this. If any of you plan to attend, I
ask that you please protest peacefully. Please convey the message without
violence or objectionable behavior. It is admirable to stand united for a just
cause, as long as it is done the right way.
I will keep
you updated on new developments as they occur.
Again, thank
you for standing by me. It means more to me than I can adequately express in a
letter. Every part of my story is true, and I am most grateful that you believe
me.
Sincerely,
Felicia
The protest is at noon across the street from St. Francis Prep this Saturday, Oct. 19th, during their Open House. There will be a rally party immediately after so that the community can continue to discuss important issues. Contact Time4ChangeSFP@gmail.com for more details.
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